Ordinary extraordinary

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We have been home for a week! And by home, I really mean it because we haven't even had to go into the hospital for blood work or a clinic check up or anything!! And this means our girl is doing great and recovering beautifully after her 3rd round of chemo. We have a home health nurse who can come to our house for labs and her other needs as Charlotte's doctors have said there is no need to see her this week! How strange it feels to not go into Duke even once this week. Tomorrow it will have been exactly 2 months since we were admitted for evaluation and sometimes it feels like some other lifetime ago. Like a different world was here only 2 short months ago and yet somehow here we are, trying to find some semblance of normalcy among a nightmare in which we cannot awake from. However, for this moment in time we bask in the bliss of the ordinary which is absolutely extraordinary. There have been days along this journey in which Brian and I wondered if we would ever be here again, feeling this way. And we are thanking God for this time with our little ones playing and enjoying each other and just living. Here are some pictures of simple Mother's Day pleasures and other snippets of happiness from this week.


Making art for her daddy

Why not learn a new sport?!? We put a slack line in our backyard😬



A Mother's Day weekend collage❤️

Charlotte with 2 of her besties Lydia and Brady

S'mores  at a friends Kentucky Derby Party!


Wonderful friends and neighbor's 

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  1. UnknownMay 14, 2016 at 4:31 PM

    PG
    So happy for you
    LY
    Pops

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  2. UnknownMay 16, 2016 at 8:16 AM

    I love everything about this. Ordinary, every day pleasures in life should be treasured and this is a great reminder of that! Love you all. :)

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  3. Kevin SweeneyMay 17, 2016 at 8:27 PM

    She is AMAZING. As are both Taylor and Parker and your entire family. The kids always want 'to see Charlotte again' so keep the updates coming. We love you all!

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